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Don’t Believe Everything You Read – Verify It

Today, I saw a link to a story posted by about a high school student in Tennessee who was at risk of being suspended for trying to start a gay-straight alliance (GSA). suggested that everyone call or email Principal Moser at the school to tell him not to suspend the student.

According to the story, Nathan Carroll wanted to start a GSA at high school and circulated a petition to get support.  When Carroll brought the petition to Principal Moser, the principal threatened to suspend him if he tried to create a GSA because the petition created a “disturbing the educational environment.”

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Now, I love I support their mission. I love their videos and I have a FCKH8 t-shirt.  I’m glad FCKH8 publicizes stories about discrimination that occurs based on sexual orientation, but this time it looks like they didn’t do their homework before posting this story and encouraging everyone to complain to the school.

Thanks to, I had Principal Moser’s phone number. So I called him. He was a very pleasant man.  According to Moser, Carroll created a petition to get student support for a GSA.  Many students supported the idea and others who were very opposed to the idea. The disagreement between the factions began to cause disruptions in classrooms that were interfering with the teachers’ ability to teach. The principle told the students on both sides that petitions would no longer be allowed in school because of the disruption they caused, and violating this directive could result in a suspension. Moser told me that he told Carroll about the process that all school clubs are required to go through in order to be created and that if students went through that process, then the school could have a GSA. I thanked Moser for his time, and I told him that I hoped the teachers used this situation as an opportunity to teach students how to appropriate communicate when there is a disagreement and people with strong beliefs on both sides.

I’m sure the real truth of this situation is a combination of the students’ and the principal’s perspective, but I looked at this situation much differently after I hung up the phone.  If Moser’s version is mostly accurate, he seems to have acted reasonably for the situation. The school isn’t against having a GSA; it just has to be done through the proper channels.

I went back to’s Facebook page and posted a comment about my experience. Many others who left comments said that they had emailed the school. There were many posts that took the news story at face value, assumed that it was completely accurate, and called the principal homophobic and insensitive among other things. There were several dozen people who had reposted the original news story on their Facebook profiles.

There are enough bad situations involving discrimination based on sexual orientation in schools that we don’t need to look for problems where they don’t exist. Today’s experience taught me how important it is to verify information and to give the other side an opportunity to explain their perspective before posting comments or repeating information online. If you’re posting inaccurate information, you’re adding to an existing problem, and it’s that much harder to fix.

PS – If everything Principal Moser told me was a lie, please tell me.

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  1. Ruth Carter says:

    I received an email with a link to another blog about the situation at this high school. Every club at this high school must have a faculty sponsor. A GSA might have trouble finding a sponsor, and the principal allegedly said that he wouldn’t force a member of the faculty to sponsor the GSA. This writer said he could hear disdain in the principal’s voice during their conversation about this situation.

    You can visit the Talk About Equality blog for more information about this writer’s conversation with Principal Moser:

  2. JamieMcG says:

    Just read your post. And yes, Moser can seem very hospitable on the phone (until you corner him with some difficult questions). He’d offered up to me that he’d assisted in finding advisers for other student clubs, but when I questioned him as to why he wouldn’t help the GSA, he got very stuck and upset with me. He went on trying to dig out of the admission he’d made to me and it was clear to me that he didn’t want this group on his campus.

    Some are saying (hearsay) that Moser has bullied teachers into not signing on to sponsor the GSA and according to one source, has saddled teachers who have expressed interest with additional after school duties and such so as to make them unavailable for such a responsibility.

    He also told me a slightly different story from what he told you in that he claimed to have been the one who encouraged Carroll to start the petition, when now, according to another source – he actually encouraged students privately to start the anti-GSA petition. I think there’s a lot we don’t yet know about this situation and Moser is doing his best to keep wraps on it.

    1. Ruth Carter says:

      Thanks for sharing your experience with Principal Moser! I hope there’s at least one teacher at that school who will volunteer to sponsor the GSA regardless of their other obligations within the school.

  3. Gwen Carlson says:

    Have you seen the latest? Allegedly Principal Moser assaulted one of the students supporting the GSA.

    1. Ruth Carter says:

      Thanks for letting me know. That’s awful!